If it's more than $40 a month, its too much. And that's the upper end of the dating service fees.
Dating services that charge a flat fee like Two of Us, Together, etc are far too much and do not deliver. Great Expectations (are they still around?) are too expensive as well as Its Just Lunch. You are better off with using 1 or 2 online dating services.
Ladies, don't do searches for guys on a dating site. Let the guys find you. Only reply to a man who has contacted you, that is if you're interested in him. Why? Because if a guy is interested he will contact you. You do not want to chase a man that's not interested in you. Don't ever chase a man!! That's his job, its his nature and besides its undignified for a woman to chase a man. And if he is not chasing you... Hello, he ain't interested in you. Move on to the next guy. Now I will get off my soap box.
I'll discuss speed dating or hurry date in a future blog.
Seems like an excerpt or derivative from He's Just Not That Into You.
ReplyDeleteNot sure if I'm the exception, but it flatters me when a girl goes hard for me and let me know what she wants. Otherwise I just assume I can drop her when I want, as we have a mutually understanding that we are just trading affection until something else comes along or something comes between us. I call it pussy purgatory, where you are just there as a source of affection and the relationship is going to go anywhere because neither person is showing that passion.
If a girl I like contacts me and let's me know what's up, we chill, then I like her, this is where walking a tightline comes in. Showing me enough interest to let me know, but not bring that girl that just becomes annoying. Her doing stuff like flirting with other guys to make me jealous if I lose interest helps.
My suggestion is to try to guage your guy. I don't think there are any hard and fast rules for all guys, but more of a custom fitted approach to each guy. You'll learn to read guys and the strings you should pull with differently personality types more and more as you date. Just be careful with trying to apply general rules, unless you are only interested in guys that follow those rules.
Just my opinion...
I just signed a contract with them....I am very skeptical is there a way out of it? I said as close to 6ft tall for a man and the first "introduction" is 5'8. I am more concerned about them having my Social security # and information. I found some professionalism in the office.
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Do whatever you can ASAP to get out of it. They took your SS # and ran a credit check on you you that's how they judged how much to charge you for their "services". If you payed by credit card call your credit card and do a charge back. Your 5'8" date is just the first in a long line of disappointments of "matches" they will give you. I'd call them and cancel your service. And of course they seem professional, they scam large amounts of money from people.
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