It's Just Lunch

I was a member of It's Just Lunch. It's pricey but it did deliver what it promised, unlike Two of Us which takes your money and doesn't deliver. If you've got the dollars try it, but if you're not rolling in dough, pass on it and try Eharmony, Chemistry or Match.com.

I always suggest enrolling in 2 or more services. Skip the free ones if you're looking for a serious relationship.

How much is too much to pay for a dating service?

If it's more than $40 a month, its too much. And that's the upper end of the dating service fees.
Dating services that charge a flat fee like Two of Us, Together, etc are far too much and do not deliver. Great Expectations (are they still around?) are too expensive as well as Its Just Lunch. You are better off with using 1 or 2 online dating services.

Ladies, don't do searches for guys on a dating site. Let the guys find you. Only reply to a man who has contacted you, that is if you're interested in him. Why? Because if a guy is interested he will contact you. You do not want to chase a man that's not interested in you. Don't ever chase a man!! That's his job, its his nature and besides its undignified for a woman to chase a man. And if he is not chasing you... Hello, he ain't interested in you. Move on to the next guy. Now I will get off my soap box.

I'll discuss speed dating or hurry date in a future blog.

American Singles & Chemistry dating services

I recently tried AmericanSingles.com and sorry,,, I do not recommend it unless you want to waste your time with instant messaging. I am currently trying Chemistry.com and I am having some luck with it. So you may to give it try for a month or 2.

Back to the instant message thing, ladies, do not waste your time. Not likely to hook up with anyone that way.

Why Men Love Bitches

I highly recommend this book to all single women. I know the title is a bit of a turn-off, but the advice is excellent. Women need to realize that men do not think like we do. They operate on a different wave length and this book explains it very well. The title does not imply "bitch" in a bad way. Its about a women holding her own and about her self worth.

Here is what I recommend: Buy the book, read it, try the principles in it. Even if you don't believe in the philosophy of the book,,,at least try it to see how it works. You'll find that it does work and it will get you on the track of finding the love of your life.

This Dating Service Blog

I'm glad that search engines have picked up this blog and single people that have been scammed by Two of Us have found this blog. My hope is that some people find it before they get ripped off by this dating service. Please continue to add your comments here.
Suzy

Together Two of Us Aliases

This dating service is known by many, many aliases. They must have at least a hundred of them.

One of the recent scams they been pulling is using the name of a town, district or city as a domain name plus the word "Singles".

Here are some examples I have found in Los Angeles:
ResedaSingles.com
NorthridgeSingles.net
VanNuysSingles.org
LakeBalboaSingles.com

Its all the same dating service that wants to defraud you of your money.
If you fill in the info with your name you'll get a call from The Two of Us dating service.
They've been putting up yard signs on public property throughout the city of L.A. with these domain names, making single people thing there is a dating service right in their own neighborhood. Its likely they are putting up signs like these nationwide.

Please don't fall for it, like I did and many others. Just do a Google search on them. You'll find that many others got stung by them.

The Rules Book

"The Rules" is one of just a few books that I recommend reading for all women. As a matter of fact it should be required reading in school. There's so much that girls and women do not understand about men and how they operate. I don't mean operate in a negative way. Its just that men are what they are, don't try to change them, you're wasting your time. And besides, I don't want a man that thinks like a woman.

The authors of the Rules book also have follow up books that you should read after you've finished the primary book. There's one on on-line dating. And there's Rules facilitators too.

Click here to find out more about the Rules.

Eharmony recommended

If you are looking for a serious relationship Eharmony is one of the dating services recommend.
I personally know of several couples who met on Eharmony. They have an enormous membership, which means you are more likely to hook up with someone. I myself have met quality men on Eharmony.

I'll post more on other services in the future.

Please comment on your thoughts about Eharmony.

Article on the Rip Off Report

See this link.
Excellent article on Two of Us Dating service.
Please note that they use a number of aliases including The Right One.

Rule of Thumb for Dating Services

If you have to go in to their office to find out more about the services they offer and to be interviewed by a sales person....Don't go! These companies are always expensive and you'll be pressured into signing a contract.

Mature VIP Singles on Facebook

They are now advertising on Facebook. Two of Us / Together has ads under the heading "Mature VIP Singles". The ads are in the right hand column. If you click on it, it sends you to the website "MatureSinglesOnly.com". Mature Singles Only is the same expensive rip off company as Two of Us. Please don't get taken in by them. They'll just take your money.

Instead I recommend dating services like: Eharmony & Match.com, or speed dating. I'll discuss those dating services and more in future blog posts.

Welcome to My Blog

Hi All,

Welcome to my blog. This blog started from my outrage of using a dating service known as Together AKA Two of Us. Buyer beware! Do NOT get suckered by one of their slick sales people into joining this service. They are lying to you.

I don't want you to think I am a crazy disgruntled woman who was expecting too much from a dating service. What I expected from them was what they promised. Matching me on a regular basis with like minded men, meeting them for coffee for a talk to see if we wanted to take it further. What I got in a 3 year period was a sporadic "match". Sometimes it took 5 months to get a match out of them. I'm not exaggerating. Oh yes,,,, This service is extremely expensive!! I really feel taken advantage of.

Their sales woman told me that I would be easy to match me and I could expect many matches and dates. That did not happen. Instead I only met 2 men in a 3 year period.

And did I mention that its extremely expensive!!! I could have gotten life time memberships from all on line dating services in the world for what I paid them. I'm not kidding.

They don't return calls either. They should be run out of business and in prison for fraud.

Please feel free to comment. I'd love to hear from you.