Chasing Men Doesn't Work

I've had any number of women tell me they chase men. Interestedly, they are all still single.
It boils down to this: If a man is interested in you, he will chase you. If you're chasing him, he's not interested in you. Move on. Don't waste your time. There's someone out there who will be into you. Women who chase men are never end up happy.

Why Women Should Never Join a Free Dating Service

I'll keep this short. If you are looking just to get laid join a free dating site. If you are looking for a relationship join a paid dating service. It does not have to be an expensive one. The point is that a man who is looking for a serious relationship will pay for a dating service. If they are looking for just something casual they won't bother paying for a service, they will just join a free one.

It's Just Lunch

I was a member of It's Just Lunch. It's pricey but it did deliver what it promised, unlike Two of Us which takes your money and doesn't deliver. If you've got the dollars try it, but if you're not rolling in dough, pass on it and try Eharmony, Chemistry or Match.com.

I always suggest enrolling in 2 or more services. Skip the free ones if you're looking for a serious relationship.

How much is too much to pay for a dating service?

If it's more than $40 a month, its too much. And that's the upper end of the dating service fees.
Dating services that charge a flat fee like Two of Us, Together, etc are far too much and do not deliver. Great Expectations (are they still around?) are too expensive as well as Its Just Lunch. You are better off with using 1 or 2 online dating services.

Ladies, don't do searches for guys on a dating site. Let the guys find you. Only reply to a man who has contacted you, that is if you're interested in him. Why? Because if a guy is interested he will contact you. You do not want to chase a man that's not interested in you. Don't ever chase a man!! That's his job, its his nature and besides its undignified for a woman to chase a man. And if he is not chasing you... Hello, he ain't interested in you. Move on to the next guy. Now I will get off my soap box.

I'll discuss speed dating or hurry date in a future blog.

American Singles & Chemistry dating services

I recently tried AmericanSingles.com and sorry,,, I do not recommend it unless you want to waste your time with instant messaging. I am currently trying Chemistry.com and I am having some luck with it. So you may to give it try for a month or 2.

Back to the instant message thing, ladies, do not waste your time. Not likely to hook up with anyone that way.

Why Men Love Bitches

I highly recommend this book to all single women. I know the title is a bit of a turn-off, but the advice is excellent. Women need to realize that men do not think like we do. They operate on a different wave length and this book explains it very well. The title does not imply "bitch" in a bad way. Its about a women holding her own and about her self worth.

Here is what I recommend: Buy the book, read it, try the principles in it. Even if you don't believe in the philosophy of the book,,,at least try it to see how it works. You'll find that it does work and it will get you on the track of finding the love of your life.

This Dating Service Blog

I'm glad that search engines have picked up this blog and single people that have been scammed by Two of Us have found this blog. My hope is that some people find it before they get ripped off by this dating service. Please continue to add your comments here.
Suzy